Following our discovery of the Enneagram, we feel more in tune, understand each other better, and naturally provide better support. Thanks to the Enneagram, for example, I can let go of all the little things that come naturally to my partner but are not in my personal nature. Before this, I couldn't understand why he reasoned differently from me. Once our types were determined, it became clear for both our own type and that of our partner. Knowing our type helps us understand many behaviors and assists us in working on them to improve.